Here is something helpful that I found to help remind me that I am right where I am supposed to be. When I first moved here I started collecting tabs with the kids for the Ronald McDonald house. I was going through some personal issues at the time and had a hard time appreciating the the life I was given. Every time we went for a walk we would look for tabs. I used these tabs a friendly reminders that I am exactly where I need to be. Right at that moment if I were anywhere else in this world, I would not have had the opportunity to find this one tab to add to our collection. When we finish filling up our jar, we find the first place that accepts them as donations and we give it to that cause. We all like to do it and it is kind of interesting the weird places we end up being at the right times.